The answer to the problems that are caused by fatherlessness is not found by passing a law or passing out more checks. A problem that is caused by the loss of a primary relationship – a missing Dad — must be addressed and solved, by the establishment of new, positive personal relationships. Governments can do some things well, but creating warm personal relationships is not one of them. Creating loving personal relationships and wholeness where there is brokenness is a fundamental calling for the Church of Jesus Christ.
The solution is also not found in attaching blame to a single mom who is already struggling and in most cases, doing the very best she can do. The solution is found in supporting those single moms and grandmothers by attaching a mentor to each of these precious children.
But the problem is so big. What can the little group of people that meets under the steeple on Main St. do to fight this fast-growing cultural cancer?
Children who grow up in difficult situations need to experience love that is poured out, over time, within the context of a healthy relationship.

How It Works

Long Island Youth Mentoring recruits healthy Christians to consider if God is calling them to q mission field of one fatherless child. Then we provide a screening and training process. This helps prospective mentors to determine if this is a part of God's call. If so we match them with one child who has asked for a mentor. They meet 2-4 times a week for a year.